How to manifest your SP (Special Person)

I want to talk about some effective ways to manifest your Special Person (aka SP) in this post. An SP usually means your desired romantic partner. In other words, someone who you want to be with, romantically. An SP can also refer to a friend/friends. You can have one SP, or several SPs, depending on your personal preferences;).

I will mention four different situations below.

Situation 1: You were in a relationship with someone in the past (maybe the relationship lasted for 6 months, 3 weeks, 1 year, or years, it really doesn’t matter), and you two are no longer together for now. This person is not sexually, psychologically, or physically manipulative. He/She/They still has qualities that you admire deeply, and you want to be with them together.

In this situation, what should you do?

Again, and again, the key principles of Law of Assumption have always been: You think, and act as if your dreams and goals have already been achieved in the reality. You say “no” verbally and/or mentally to any unfavor/contradictory evidence that you go through in the reality. You stay firm, mentally, and keep persisting, and think in your favor until your manifestations show up in the reality;).

It also helps…whenever you repeat your affirmations, you also tell yourself: I have always manifested effortlessly~ Whatever I want in mind, they show up in the reality immediately;).

Anyway, to go back to this situation 1, don’t think about how long you two dated in the past, whether you are in contact with them or not, or how often they talk to you, etc. External situations DO NOT matter. When you manifest, do not think about any unpleasant/negative things or events that have nothing to do with your manifestations. They do not matter. They don’t exist at all~ I will write a blog post about the ideal mental state to have when you manifest.

To manifest your SP to go back to your life again, do this:

Every morning, when you wake up, you can robotically affirm for at least 10 minutes. Every evening, before you go to sleep, you robotically affirm for 10-15 minutes or more time….You positive affirmations can be like this:

XXXX (Your SP’s full name) has always been in love with me. They already reached out to me. We are happy together now.

You don’t have to use the exact wordings as what I described above. Your affirmations have to sound natural to you. Say them in a way that you often talk with your friends and family. Natural affirmations make it easy for your subconscious mind to accept.

Your repeat your affirmations robotically, again and again, without any resistance every morning and night.

During the daytime, whenever you think of your SP, you only think about happy, loving moments that you two shared with each other in the past. It also helps if you imagine the soon-to-be happen dating scenes between you two in the very near future: you two go hiking together; you two watch movies, or eat delicious food at the new restaurant in town; you two go to different social events as a happy, powerful couple! The more details you can picture on your mind, the better;). Visualization is a powerful technique!

For those ones who have difficulty visualizing scenes on your mind, please don’t be hard on yourself. Repeated robotic affirmations absolutely work;). Robotic affirmation is my favorite manifestation technique;). You can do robotic affirmations. Or you can do robotic affirmations in combination with the subliminal technique. Download the Parrot App on your phone. It’s free! On the Parrot App, record yourself…in your own voice, saying your affirmations naturally and confidentlly. Play this voice record on your background when you relax, when you eat dinner, or at night when you go to sleep. The parrot app plays any voice record automatically;). The repeated message can reach your subconscious mind easily…

Which technique, or techniques you use for manifestation depend on which one you find most effectively~~

Whenever you doubt your manifestations, or your SP’s feelings for you, correct yourself immediately! Say: Stop that. No. My SP is still in love with me. We are happy together now.

Be consistent with your thoughts! And you will find out…your SP reaches out to you via text messages or the social media platform you two are still connecting to… ;).

In your visualization, you can also picture the long, thoughtful message from your SP that they have already sent to you;). Be creative!

Once a lady reached out to me after she read this website of mine. I did a free 15 minute free coaching session with her…to share her all the details as for how to manifest for her SP to contact her again. I also shared some techniques with her via text messages after my call with her. (I offer a free 15–30-minute coaching session to anyone who is interested in working with me. After that, if you want to work with me officially, each coaching session costs some money. Details can be found under the “Menu“- work with me section on this website.) And you know what? The next day, she told me she had just heard from her SP;)!!

Situation 2: You were in a relationship with someone before. This person was manipulative, toxic, and caused so much mental and/or phsical pains on you. But, you are still in love with them, and want to be with them together.

Well….With the good practice of law of assumption, you can manifest anything!! But still, regardless of what you do, make sure you don’t make compromise easily, stay firm to your personal boundaries! Honestly, if your so-called SP caused so much emotional and/or physical damages to you, ask youself: Is it still worth manifesting this person come back to my life? Harmless arguments or misunderstandings in past relationships are understandable and can be forgiven after heart-to-heart conversations. But a line has to be drawn somewhere.

You can manifest in a way…to repeatedly tell yourself that the painful past has never existed. Or the past has been deleted forever and once! You can also manifest that someone who hurt you before has already reached out to you…and sent you a beautifully written apology message. Or even better, this person has already changed to be better for YOU. And, now you two are together. Perhaps I will write some posts about manifest for apology letters in the future. But without knowing the specific situation you are in, especially how much damage this SP has caused, I cannot give you concrete advice.

In general, my advice is: Someone who caused you so much pain does not deserve to be with you. This person is forever gone in your life. They never exist. Work on your self-concept. Say positive affirmations to yourself such as “I am confident. I am unique. I trust myself 100%. I deserve nothing but the best treatments from everyone” every day. Write down your strengths and accomplishments, and things you have manifested successfully in a piece of paper. Read everything you wrote in the paper loudly. Don’t accept people to come back to your life easily. And…manifest for a new, much better SP to be in your life for your own benefit (which I will talk about in situation 3.)

Situation 3: You don’t have any particular SP in your life for now, and you want to manifest for an amazing SP to show up in life!

For those ones who are currently single, don’t have crushes on anyone strongly, and want to be in a good relationship, you can manifest for a good SP to show up in your life!

How to do this?

Think about, and write down all the qualities of an ideal partner in your notebook. You can write down as many qualities as you can think about. Feel free to write down your SP’s personality traits, hobbies, career, and physical traits, etc.

After you write these qualities down, read them aloud, again and again. And tell yourself: I am already with this ideal SP. We are together now, and nothing can ever come between us.

In your daily affirmations, make sure you mention this perfect SP. Say something like: I am in the best relationship ever. My SP works in XXX (their career); they are kind, humorous, and we are so deeply in love with each other. Again, say your affirmations naturally.

At night, other than saying positive affirmations about this SP, picture the scenes that you meet up with your SP on your mind: A mutual friend invites you to a social event, and you see your SP there; A family member invites you to her wedding two weeks later. On her wedding, you have wonderful conversations with someone you meet. This person is your SP, etc.

Don’t be concerned about when you will meet with your SP. As long as you keep telling yourself…you are already with this person, and be clear about the qualities this SP has; you stay consistent mentally, your SP can show up anytime…In the realm of law of assumption, the key is: when we keep repeating good things about ourselves, and our manifestations, someday, our beautiful, powerful inner world can be reflected on the outside world. Ppl pick up our energetic, positive vibe easily, and the whole world will show opportunities for us to shine;).

Some people may ask: When I manifest for a special SP to show up, other than doing all the inner world, do I have to go out of my way to…actively go to different social events so I can meet up with more people…which increases my chance of encountering my SP?

Again, the key has always been to change our inner world….to reprogram our subconsious mind…to accept our affirmations as the ultimate truth repeatedly and deny any contradictory thoughts or evidence in the reality….As a result, the outside world reflects on the abundance of our powerful inner world;).

I wrote a post about how to deal with the reality in our manifestation journey two months ago. You can check it from my old blog post. The basic rules are: (1): Don’t react to most negativity in real life. Most things only affect you…if you react to them. (2): If people across your boundary way too much, fight back, call them out, and still keep persisting your affirmations. (3): Stay firm mentally, but, have fun in the 3D reality~ Enjoy your life out there~~~

So, when manifesting for a new SP, the key is mostly about do all the inner world. You can be a little bit more active: say yes to events that people invite you to go; attend regular parties that your own social group often goes to; go to art or music shows that you are genuinuely into, etc. But, don’t feel that you have to actively go to so many local events every night.

Situation 4: Want to manifest for new, better friends in life, or want to re-connect with old friends who you haven’t heard from for a while.

You are powerful! You can manifest anything! Wanna re-connect with old friends? Imagine mutual friends inviting you for a gathering, and you run into your old friends;). Keep telling yourself: I have run into XXX (friends’ full names). They love my energy. We are best friends forever now.

New friends? Write down the personality traits of your new friends. Write your ideal friends. Read them aloud. Keep telling yourself: I am energetic, charming. I have a group of stable, trustworthy, and amazing friends who are in my life forever…

You can manifest for anything, and anyone.

You deserve to be with someone who is psychologically, intellectually, and sexually compatible with you;). You are already with such a person.

You deserve to be with a group of loyal, genuine, and trustworthy friends. They are there for you forever.

You are powerful;).